Astoria kids of the 1940s reunite

7 Oct

PS 5 kids when they were in 3rd grade – some of them are in the reunion photo below

The kids – at their reunion on September 20, 2012

In September a group of people in their early seventies met for lunch at an Astoria restaurant.  Most had either attended Public School 5 or Junior High School 126 in the neighborhood together, back in the late ‘40s and early ‘50s.  There were 24 “kids” from those schools at the gathering, along with 16 spouses or friends.  There were hugs and shouts of delight.  Some had not seen each other for over fifty years.  Since June 23, 1954 to be exact.

Alfred Holzman organized the reunion.  His Slovakia-born parents had moved into 34-03 30th Avenue in 1944.  They ran a store called Grand Paint Supply Company downstairs from their apartment, which is now Prime Design and Printing.  In 1945 Alfred entered Public School 5.

The school was at 30-11 29th Street, just off 30th Avenue.  The site is still a school – PS 234 – but the PS 5 building is no longer there: in 1967 an eight year-old boy playing with a match in a student clothing closet triggered a fire that burned the building to the ground.

Alfred and his classmates were devoted to one of their teachers, Mrs. Evelyn R. Benton.  She had recently started teaching at the school after serving with the US navy during World War II as a “WAVE” (an acronym for Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service).  Many years later, in 2005, Alfred decided to get a small group of “Mrs. Benton’s kids” back together again for a reunion.

Since that initial gathering in South Florida the group has mushroomed as Alfred has been able to track down more and more of their classmates.  Many live within New York State or New Jersey.  Some though had flown in for the Astoria reunion from Florida and were making the occasion into a vacation.  One woman arrived a little late having driven for seven hours straight from Vermont.

The reunion bubbled with reminiscences and summaries of lifetimes.  How to update someone on the last fifty years of your life?  It tended to boil down to love, work and health.  There may be big differences between the specific paths Mrs. Benton’s pupils took but those basic ingredients, in various formulations, are there.

Among the group is an actress, an artist who taught at Fashion Institute of Technology, and a wall-street investor-turned marine-turned firefighter who also played the bugle in a band during the half-times of New York Giants games.  One of the guests had married his childhood sweetheart.  Another was there with his second wife.  Alfred married his wife Lucy when he was in his fifties.

Clyde Locke, one of the guests, remembers the mix of origins of the kids along his block and still has the accents to prove it.  He can switch effortlessly from Irish- to Scottish- to English- to German- to Italian-accented English.  He says arriving at college where most kids had grown up in rural American towns was a culture shock – their experience having been so different from his city life.  Frank went on to be an ophthalmologist in Astoria and the Director of eye surgery at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary.  He fixed two detached retinas for one of his PS 5 kindergarten classmates, Rosemarri Roth, who stood up at the reunion to thank him.

While Astoria was mixed when Mrs Benton’s kids were young, most of its residents were of European origins.  As Alfred described it, “we all came from working class immigrant families, whether Hungarian, German, Slovak, Greek, or Italian-American.”

The guests brought photos and mementos.  Among them was a faded PS 5 banking book.  Each student contributed to his or her student bank account every Monday morning.  It could be a dime, a quarter, even a dollar, whatever their parents could afford at the time.  At the end of sixth grade when they graduated from PS 5, the children received a regular bank book.  In that way they learned to save.

The best memories though didn’t need a prop.  Evelyn Strang (raised on 30th Street between Newtown Avenue and Astoria Boulevard) and Frank Jankech (31st Avenue and 32nd Street) reminisced about a date they had gone on when they were young.  It was Evelyn’s first time going to a Broadway show.  She recalls her mother telling her to dress up nice and wear gloves.  “I remember you were always smiling, always happy,” she said of Frank.

Miss Anna E. Burns, the PS 5 long-time principal, cropped up in the conversations.  The girls at the school liked her, the boys loathed her.  One recalled his delight at discovering how to open a high window in the corridor followed by the dread of sensing her approaching behind him.

There were also insights into how 30th Avenue has changed.  Near where Key Foods supermarket is now located there was a grand mansion: Evelyn’s father tended the gardens there.  Most of the Avenue consisted of small shops, like now, but very few of the shops from the time have survived.  On practically every corner there was a pharmacy: from 29th Street to Steinway there were seven.

Off the Avenue, kids would take over whole blocks with street games, like stick ball for which they used manhole covers and auto fenders as bases.  And many remembered the jubilant street parties on V-J day in Spring 1945, when they were impressionable five year-olds.

Guests were given a questionnaire that they browsed during the meal, with questions about PS 5 and the neighborhood.  Some had specific answers.  “An important invention was made in Astoria in a garage on 37th Street, what was it?” (Answer: xerography, i.e. a dry photocopy, which soon became the essence of the Xerox corporation).

Other questions began with “Do you remember…?”.  For example, “Do you remember ‘inspection’ each week?” (when the class had to stand in a row and have their hands and fingernails inspected for cleanliness and display their handkerchiefs).  And: “Do you remember the basement lunch room (can you smell the tomato soup) ?”

The atmosphere at the reunion ranged from lighthearted to emotional.  As Alfred said when he addressed the group: “It’s just a kick, a great feeling, to see someone again.”

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I am very grateful to Alfred Holzman for inviting me to join this reunion.

For more on how 30th Avenue was in the past, see: the interview with Bob Singleton of the Greater Astoria Historical Society; a conversation with a group of Astoria old-timers at Corner Delights café; and the post about 30th Avenue’s former ice cream parlors.

Alfred Holzman’s parents outside their store Grand Paint Supply Company at 34-03 30th Avenue, just before they retired

And 34-03 30th Avenue today: Prime Design and Printing

 

10 Responses to “Astoria kids of the 1940s reunite”

  1. Patrick Shields June 21, 2013 at 8:22 pm #

    I have often thought about my days at PS 5. Though we left Astoria in 1950 to move to Flushing, I remember very well the great school and greater teachers we had then.
    The teachers had our utmost respect in those days – our parents insisted that we respect our teachers as we respected our parents; no less.
    I began PS 5 in 1947. My first grade teacher was Mrs Fullerton – what a delightful lady she was.
    In second grade, I had Mrs Sawyer, probably not my favorite. In reality, she dispelled the myth of Santa Claus for me – she was the first ever to tell me that Santa Claus is NOT real. I remember being broken hearted about that news and I remember my mother going down to the school and confronting Mrs Sawyer and in today’s vernacular “ripping her a new one”.
    Third grade brought me to Miss Pearlstein, another lovely individual and smart teacher. I remember her often speaking about her up and coming marriage. It was a pleasure listening to her.
    The olny children I can now recall were John Tobacco and a new Spanish boy named Louis.
    I am grateful for the opportunity to have attended PS 5 and was dismayed to hear it no longer stands, but as time marches onward, so must we.
    I am now retired and have been living in Florida for the past 23 years, but my formative days growing up in Astoria just after the war ended will forever be inscribed indelibly in my mind.
    So sorry to have missed the reunion; it sounds like it was a great time to reminisce on days of yore.
    Dem were da days!

    • Albert (Al) Console July 8, 2013 at 6:05 pm #

      I attended P.S. 5 from 1946 to 1952. I lived on 28 Rd. (between 31St & 33St.)
      I would walk up to the 30 Ave elevated subway and walk across so not to cross the busy 31 St., but their was always a Police Officer their to help with crossing the street.
      Some of the teachers I had were Mrs. Benton, Mrs. DRose. Some of my class mates
      I remember were Larry DiBona, Johnny Robinson, Vito Mondello.
      If I remember correctly Thursday was Auditorium day, and the boys wore white shirts with red ties. Mrs. Burns was the Principle. I also remember the school bank account.
      P.S. 5 was a great school, I felt bad went it burnt down. After graduating P.S. 5
      I then went to J.H. 126 my room teacher was Mr. Thornton, I then went to
      William Cull Bryant High School and my home room teacher was Mrs. Marshall.
      This site brought back a lot of memories. Thanks so much.

      • Larry Di Bona April 13, 2014 at 3:40 pm #

        Hi Al, I’m married to Larry DiBona that you mention in the above blog.
        He doesn’t seem to remember the people that you mentioned, it would be nice if you contacted him to see exactly how it is that you remember him.
        He now lives up in Cape Cod. Is a retired postmen.
        Thank you, Carol DiBona

        • Al Console May 28, 2014 at 6:54 pm #

          Hi, I remember Larry being tall, quiet always smiling, joking, we hung out together in school and sometimes played ball together.
          After PS 5 I went to PS 126, then Bryant H.S. Joined the Marines went to Viet Nam became a musician. I live in Arizona now

        • Al Console May 28, 2014 at 6:57 pm #

          Forgot to add, How do I contact Larry????

        • Al Console May 29, 2014 at 2:14 pm #

          Hi Carol, Thanks for the reply back. I remember Larry DiBona in school as being tall, always smiling and joking. We hung out together and played ball together sometimes.
          I went to PS 5 then PS 126 then Bryant H.S. Went to the Marines
          and went to Viet Nam front lines, came back some what ok, became a musician saxophone player and now live in Arizona
          You said Larry lives in Cape Cod now, how would I get in touch with him or let him get in touch with me.

          • Larry DiBona September 4, 2014 at 1:14 am #

            Hello Al,
            This is Larry responding to you. Please contact me at capelarry@comcast.net
            under subject, please put in P.S. 5 so I will know the e-mail is okay to ‘opeon’
            Best to you, Al.
            Larry

  2. Frank Jankech March 30, 2013 at 9:30 pm #

    Annabel, March 30th 2013. Just received an E-Mail from Al on your October article. What a warm and sincere writing about our last reunion. I didn’t realize you were taking so many notes during the luncheon. Al Holzman has done a superb job in getting us “old kids” together after so many years. Astoria was a great place to grow up in. We all have terrific memories which, thank god, are still with us. I can easily represent that we are all looking forward to our next Al Holzman get together production. Hope you can make it with us wherever it is in the future. Best wishes and thanks again for a great article. Frank T. Jankech, Jackson, New Jersey

  3. Mary Janica (Szeglin) Bernius March 30, 2013 at 8:38 pm #

    Thank you so much for the lovely pictures you posted and the description of the time spent in Astoria.
    I remember many of my former classmates and it was so nice to see them before and after! Wish I could have been there, maybe next time.

    Thank you, Janica

    • Andrea Pack March 31, 2013 at 5:10 pm #

      It was beyond my wildest expectations to have such a joyful time at the Reunion. I saw my junior high school friends (126) and others like Alfred who have kept up friendships for decades. Some of us had attended P.S. 126 and knew each other from kindergarten and then joined up with the P.S. 5 crew and the P.S. 166 crew when we all started J.H.S. 126 (housed in the same building as P.S. 126). Confused?

      Astoria was a special place for us as children and teenagers (Astoria Park,Rainey Park,a variety of houses of worship, many movie houses and ice cream parlors) It was a well-kept secret from the rest of the world. It took ten-fifteen minutes to get into Manhattan on the BMT. Our environment was multi-cultural and multi-ethnic from the get-go. We lived in harmony and respected one another’s similarities and differences. We shared the richness of our backgrounds. I, too, have heart-felt memories of growing up here. And… I still live here in Astoria!

      Many thanks to Alfred and Lucy for planning the reunion.It took much time and effort for them to plan long distance from Florida. Thanks to Anabel Short for the article which should inspire all non-attendees to think about the next reunion. Be well everyone and let’s hear from you.

      Keep in touch!
      Andrea Pack

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